How, when and why Grace is received and earned?

 

How, when and why Grace is received and earned?

This post is a reply to all those questions, accusations, anger that people have for
such posts - 

"Grace healings for healing the Earth!

Sending Reiki to Swathi and Kshitija for healing the Earth on regular basis. They are showing the gratitude in one of the right ways!"

People just stop at “empty words” of “thank you maam, thank you Guruji, thank you Reiki” and think they are grateful, they have shown gratitude. And not only that they even are arrogant about that. How sad is that??!!

Gratitude is not a word. If it is genuine then it reflects in actions – without fail. People want to get away with empty words. And they suffer the consequences of their “actions” and then they cry at such times.

Imagine your Company says “Thank you” and may even give you a card – a huge one every month in exchange for all your services (job) and sends you home without your pay packet. How grateful and joyous would you be? But, you want the other person to be happy and grateful (to you) with empty words? You want them to do Reiki to you and your desires – stating “But you are a Guru and you SHOULD DO IT MAAM??!!!!”

God SHOULD DO FOR YOU.

Guru SHOULD DO FOR YOU.

Parents SHOULD DO FOR YOU.

And when it comes to you doing anything for them, “but I have a life know maam. When will I get to sleep/take rest? I have to save, how can I pay fees/money for Pooja/gifts?”

You are angry and say “God is egoist for seeking money from us and pooja from us. Why can’t he just give what we desire?”

“Maam is money minded when the time to pay fees comes. Maam is greedy if she asks for long-pending dues. Maam is selfish and what not!” does the same not hold good for you demanding salaries from your Company in exchange for your service?

Then, how come rules are different when it comes to pay for my services?

It is called double standards! And yet, I am the “BAD GUY” here.

God is the bad guy.

Parents are bad when they seek something from you. But, what they did all these years is “but all parents do no maam? And then, they are parents. They are supposed to do for their kids?”

How selfish! How greedy! How manipulative! And yet, you are “good people??”

Wake up to reality.

The day you face yourself honestly is the day your healing ACTUALLY starts! Till then all that you are doing is ‘plastic surgery’. It may serve some purpose but the actual damage is not being addressed.

Wake up. Own up your nature. Look at your intentions. Understand them. First ACCEPT THEM. Then, know them and their reason to be. Sit and meditate.

(DO NOT WRITE A MAIL EXPLAINING HOW GOOD A PERSON YOU ARE)

HEAL, heal and heal yourself – only outgrowing the lower nature is the answer to have that respect for yourself – in your eyes!

Till then, you are only beating around the bush!

Wake up – it’s high time!

Grace can't be demanded.

Grace is not an entitlement!

Grace is not your right!

Grace is not received by acting "victim"

Grace is not received by "crying"!

Grace is earned! Know it and earn it!

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Sadhan for August 2025

 

Sadhan for August 2025

August – favourite month of the year …….and wonderful time for a wonderful sadhan that we have been keeping up doing since years – all thanks to you…….

I greatly appreciate your participation in this “yagna”!

Looking forward to this year’s participation and feedback along with experiences, healings completed, journey completed/enjoyed, growth seen and experienced….

Healing list for this month –

·        We’ll do this healing till 5^th of September (Teacher’s Day).

·        Make a list of teachers you are grateful for and keep it ready.

·        Make a list of your Gurus – Dr. Mikao Usui, Guru Nanak, Adi Shankaracharya, Madhavacharya, St. Francis of Assisi, Kabir, and so on….

·        Send Reiki to a list of your teachers/Gurus at least 2 times a week – daily would be wonderful. The Best time of course is night 10-10.15pm. Any other time is equally good.

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Do the following at least 3-4 times a week. If not possible do as many as you can –

o   Watch sunrise/sunset/sky for 15 mts

o   Walk/sit in grass/sand

o   Listen to songs/music at least 15 mts (you can also listen to them as you are working)

·        Chant 108 malas if possible any one of the following (in the order of preference)

o   Gayathri mantra

o   Om Gurubhyo namaha

o   Om namaha shivaya

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We all have “A BIG LIST OF THINGS THAT DIDN’T HAPPEN/FULFILL YET” – yet, it is okay to be grateful for all the things that happened by the Grace of our Gurus/God/Divine/Reiki. Let us keep our complaints aside for just this month and rejoice in the Sunshine of gratitude. Let’s share our stories of the past/present that speaks of abundance in our life with one and all. If you don’t want to, then at least write your journal daily with things that worked your way in your life.

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As always come back with your completed number of your malas so that I can close this sadhan for you and on your behalf….

 

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Suggested read - https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=august+sadhan 

as the name suggests this link will take you to all the previous years sadhan of August.....go through them one by one.....take time and read them....

also read your comments - enjoy your journey....

relive your achievements, milestones crossed, tears wiped and joys experienced - once again.....

Guru Pournima 2025

 

Guru Pournima 2025

Sent Reiki to all you students – those in sadhan and also not in sadhan…….on the occasion of this great day!

God willing – will keep the day open for all students to meet next year 2026!

Till then, be in sadhan, don’t demand Guru’s grace with simple empty words or greetings.

Become worthy of it by being in sadhan. Work on your attitudes. Become so worthy that Guru is compelled to be on your side day in and day out!

Bless you all!

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also read previous post https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2020/12/on-guru.html 

each one of you can read posts related to Guru and share your favourite with others........

Sadhan July 2025

 

Sadhan July 2025

 

Do re-birth meditation with fear at least thrice per week.

 

Do Vastu healing at least 3 times per week.

 

Do Earth healing at least 2 times per week.

 

Do Emotional healing with your near and dear one (one who matters to you/one who you think you love/like a lot)  2 times per week.

 

Share something good that happened to you (old or new), or an experience, understanding in the blog at least once a week. (OPTIONAL)

Sit under a tree, listen to birds, touch the tree – 15mts minimum 

Those who can do more number of times do it!

 

It may seem like a lot to do, but write it down and make a time-table, it is very doable – easily too!

You may select any of the ones you want to do, as ever I’ll be there doing it with you – each one of the above – every single day – so always REMEMBER, you are not alone in this!

 

Come back with your experiences, observations every weekend or month end as per your convenience.

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RECIPE TO BE LEADERS!

 

RECIPE TO BE LEADERS!

There is only ONE recipe to be a “Leader” – that of being ready to lay down one’s life for a cause!

No one, absolutely no one (without an exception) can become a leader without being ready to and one who can lay down his life for a cause. No leadership is assigned without this ultimate sacrifice.

All want to be a leader (or a Reiki Master or a Grand Master in our case) and yet no one wants to sacrifice.

Forget about sacrificing one’s life, no one is ready to sacrifice his sleep, his greed, his manipulative nature, desire to be glorified by students and what not.

No one wants to make the necessary sacrifice. And so, no one makes a leader.

We all want to be leaders without making the necessary sacrifice. And the result is zero – nobody bows in front of us, no one listens to us and no one respects us.

A leader is one who is ready to sacrifice his ego and be humble (in real sense not just pretend). But, all want to control others. So, they fail the test when they act as Reiki Masters. They fail as humans. They fail to walk this path.

Correct the essentials and see the miracles happen. Work on self and become worthy of the respect that you so want and are desperate to get. It will happen automatically if you earn it. Don’t be manipulating seeking it.

Wake up and live right!

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# sacrifice, family, relationships, leadership, mentor, self learning, ego, challenges of life, spiritual path, on being spiritual, freedom,

also read previous post https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2015/03/rama-purushottam.html 

Problems are like washing machines.

 

Problems are like washing machines

They twist us, spin us and knock us around but in the end we come out cleaner, brighter and better in the end!

As long as life is life will throw googly at us. (Googly is a kind of ball thrown in cricket. It doesn’t have a set rhythm). No one can predict or control the way things will shape up in life. That is said as “life throwing googly at us”.

If seen right, it also can be said that “Life is playing with us”. We are batting and it is bowling. Fun, isn’t it?

But, we end up crying, complaining, going into depression and everything else except enjoying this game. Why? Not because, it is sad or bad. Yes, what life does or how it does is not bad or sad. What life does or how life evolves is also not wrong.

The issue is we are not “good at batting” the balls that it throws at us. We are poor players. We want to sit idle in the field. But, how? just think!!

We don’t know how to handle the balls thrown at us. The day we learn to play right even if be just a few of the balls thrown at us, just imagine the joy, satisfaction and pride we feel – not to forget the fun element then.

That learning to play the balls right is all healing is about. That way of living is all there is to learn. Then, come what may, we will enjoy this game of life! We wouldn’t be depressed, hopeless or feel cornered by life/guru/Reiki or God.

So, you see, problems are like washing machines. They twist us, spin us and knock us around but in the end we come out cleaner, brighter and better in the end!

So let’s work towards becoming a better person rather than a bitter person at the end of this washing!

Come let’s heal ourselves enough to be able to play this game better.

Come let’s enjoy this life for what it offers.

Come let’s reclaim our worth!

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# problems and solutions, every problem has a solution, breakdown situations and breakthrough situations, miracles, luck, life,

also read previous post to know how a simple perceptive change changes the matter of the problem https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2021/11/on-problems-and-solutions_02130584121.html 

 

Recipe for happiness!

 

Recipe for happiness!

Don’t make everything about YOU!

Stop seeing “What’s in that for ME?” always!

Don’t keep looking for excuses to make yourself “a victim”.

 

And then, just like that – you’ll have people appreciating you, liking you, being there for you. And even when you weren’t searching for it, “happiness is there for you”.

 

Such a simple recipe and yet, so difficult for all to follow and benefit!!??

 

I wonder why?

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# victim mentality, empowerment, challenges of life, character, our choices, life is beautiful, everything happens for a reason, 

also read previous post https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2018/02/old-woman-with-rice-stories-and-all.html